USAToday on church shopping via the web

Interesting, if shallow, report in USAToday about the increasing number of people who check out a church’s website as one way of discerning whether they want to attend or not. Typical concerns are expressed:

"The Web has allowed people to be cowards about profound religion," says Bandy. "It allows us to hide behind our e-mail, jargon names, URLs and stuff like that. But religion is really an act of courage — to submit, to surrender, to be vulnerable to the other, to that which is beyond yourself."

I suspect that this quote is supposed to support a concern that people who “shop” online for churches are only interested in what “works” for them, and that such a concern is too consumer-oriented to be faithful. But what about those of us who over and over again have “made ourselves vulnerable” to each other in specific church settings enough to have learned that some communities are simply too dysfunctional to inhabit with health, and therefore checking them out online is a first step? After all, if you can’t figure out when and where a liturgy is happening from a website, that’s a pretty good sign that that specific community is not very welcoming.

I will admit to huge skepticism these days towards the work of any researcher who draws critical or negative conclusions from the behavior of people faithful enough to be looking for a church to go to! These days there are few enough people even vaguely intrigued by institutional church that we ought to be interested in those who are actively searching for such connections.

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tonylorenzen commented on 18 October 2007:

What's interesting about this quote is that folks who church shop via the web and then attend a church have taken the next step, which is to be vulnerable. Last Sunday at my church we had six new people. One was a bride to be who is getting married at my church because she found our UU church on the web when her Catholic parish wouldn't marry her because she' pregnant. She brought her parents, both of whom hadn't been to church in years. All three plan on coming back. Another two were a mother and daughter, former UU Christians who attended a Catholic church for a time, but were searching for a UU church that would welcome their Christian-based journey. They found us by searching the net for a likely church. Another was a woman who just moved to the area and church shopped. All six stepped out in faith and found our church thanks to our internet presence. I think it safe to say many churches with a web presence could tell similar stories and few of them have little to do with cowardice and much to do with spiritual courage.